Epistles

How to Grow Closer to Jesus

Message Notes


About the epistle: 

- Written by John, the disciple of Jesus. 

- The only one of the twelve who did not suffer martyrdom but died an old man from natural  causes. Not because he compromised, though! History says they tried to boil him in oil and tried  to behead him but it didn’t work… Then they exiled him on the tiny Greek island of Pathmos -  where he received the entire book of Revelation… You just can’t keep a man of God down! 

- John also wrote a Gospel, where he constantly referred to himself as ’the disciple that Jesus  loved’. He didn't suggest that Jesus didn’t love the other eleven, but John has such a revelation  of, and such a strong identity in the love of Jesus for him, that he even named himself ’loved by  Jesus’. God wants to give you the same assurance, the same identity! 

- In the same way, the epistle 1 John is soaked with the love of God. In its five chapters, John  mentions love 46 times!  

- History tells us that in the last few years of John’s life, as an old man, all he ever uttered was the  phrase ’Love one another’. 

- This letter is as Jesus centered as it is love centered, and we are going to look at some of the  keys that John gives us on How to grow closer to Jesus throughout life: 

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1 John 1:1-3  

That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our  eyes, which we have looked at and our hands have touched—this we proclaim concerning  the Word of life.  The life appeared; we have seen it and testify to it, and we proclaim to you the eternal life,  which was with the Father and has appeared to us.  

We proclaim to you what we have seen and heard, so that you also may have fellowship  with us. And our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ.  

- ’That…which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked at and  our hands have touched—this we proclaim’ 

In other words, the boldness to proclaim Jesus and the Gospel has little to do with a certain  personality or unique social quality, but goes back to how much you have heard, seen, looked at  and touched the person Jesus. 

Acts 4:13  

When they saw how bold Peter and John were, and noticed that they were unlearned men  from among the people, they were amazed. But then they recognized them and  remembered that they had been with Jesus.  

Again, your relationship with, and closeness to Jesus, is what produces boldness and strength.

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So John gives us four important steps in growing a strong relationship with Jesus: hear, see,  look at and touch. Let’s go through them one by one:

1. ’Which we have HEARD’  

Everything starts here! 

Romans 10:14 

And how can they believe in him whom they have not heard?  

Life can contain many wonderful experiences, but can only be built on the Word of God (importance of BTS!) 

So many Christians struggle with insecurities in their relationship with God, or wrong ideas about  who He is and what His character is all about - because they haven’t heard, studied, read,  listened.  

- I use an example from my own life, growing up in a religious environment and having all kinds of  crazy ideas about God - because I hadn’t HEARD the Good News. Therefore, even though I  believed God existed, I didn’t have any stability in my relationship with Him. 

The hearing - the information, the knowledge, the insight about God and who he is - is absolutely  necessary. However, it’s not sufficient. The next step in growing closer to Jesus is: 

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2. ’Which we have SEEN with our eyes’  

What you hear gives you knowledge - what you see gives you a person.  

Job 42:5  

Before I had HEARD of you, but now I have SEEN you with my own eyes.  Please note: both hearing and seeing is absolutely necessary and complete one another. 

Knowledge without a person is only theory.  

Person without knowledge is shallow and unstable.  

We HEAR when we read the Bible and listen to teaching, we SEE when we pray and praise. Note (1 John 1:1): not just 'see' but '...with OUR eyes

Do you see Jesus with your own eyes - or do you see him with the eyes of others? Those of your  parents, your wife or husband, your pastor or youth leader? The eyes of your past experiences?  

If so, Jesus wants to give your own, inner eyes a new, fresh picture of who he is, how much he  loves you, and what he wants for you today, in 2023! 

Next step in growing closer to Jesus: 

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3. ’Which we have LOOKED AT’  

Why does John add ’looked at' when he already said 'seen'? Isn't that the same thing? No! 

'See' can mean you see something because you happened to face a certain direction, something  happened to take place in front of you. It doesn’t necessarily mean you made an active choice. 

Look at’ on the other hand, means to actively fix your eyes upon something by choice.

Greek original word translated ’look at’ (’Thea-omai’) appears only twice in the Bible - here and in  John 1:14, '...and we saw his glory’ - meaning ’we fixed our eyes on his glory’). Definition of the  word from Strong’s: 

’To gaze upon, to observe something intently to grasp its significance, to concentrate on  and allow something to significantly impact you’  

In other words, the ’looking at' Jesus, involves a choice: 

a. You choose to look at Jesus, and at the same time… 

b. You choose NOT to look at other things that the devil and your flesh want you to look at  (worldliness, impurity, pornography, things that celebrate what Jesus died to deliver you from) 

1 John 1:6-7  

If we say we have fellowship with him and walk in darkness, we are lying and not acting  according to the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, then we have  fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, cleanses us from all sin.  

To ’look at’ Jesus is about choosing him and opting out of other things - is about maturing to a  place where you start to pay a price for your faith

Many Christians feel they lack the fire of God - but many times it’s because they have placed no  sacrifice on their altar. The fire from heaven will only fall when a sacrifice has been made. Choose  to look at Jesus today and pay whatever price you need to pay (friends, lifestyle, reputation…)  

Last step in growing closer to Jesus (though we grow by constantly repeating all four) is: 

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4. ’Which our hands have TOUCHED’  

(Start to move towards ministry time from the beginning of the point) 

Jesus doesn't just want to touch you. He wants you to touch Him.  

Johannes himself was there when the resurrected Jesus said: 

Luke 24:39  

Look at my hands and my feet that it really is me. Touch me and see! A spirit does not have  flesh and bones as you see me have.  

In the touch was the proof - he is alive, here and now. He is all I need! 

In the dawn of creation, we read that God created all things by his word. He said, and it was. But  when it was time for him to create his own image, man and women, you and me, he didn’t use  words to create us - He used his touch. His own hands to form us. And ever since, in every  human being, there is a burning desire for that touch - to be touched by God and to be able to  touch God in that personal, unique way that makes you able to call him ’my God’. 

(I personally end with an example from when I was a kid and burned my hand, lost feeling for a  few weeks. ’You might have lost your spiritual feeling, then God wants to heal that so you can  touch him, feel him, experience his presence!’) + general altar call for salvation


Epistles

This journey through the letters from Paul to the early church can give us wisdom and insight on Christian living today.

18 Part Series

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Assets & Files

Part 1: The Revelation of Righteousness

Understand the standard that God has set.

Part 2: Under the Influence

Embrace the Holy Spirit's role for a life that's fulfilling and purposeful.

Part 3: Under the Influence Pt. 2

What God has placed upon you will always be greater than anything the enemy can place in place in front of you.

Part 4: The Most Important Thing

Life begins with God's love for us and how we show it to the world around us.

Part 5: Breaking Toxic Thought Patterns

Guard against human reasoning by standing on all that God says.

Part 6: How to Grow Closer to Jesus

Understand what it means for us to draw near to our Savior.

Part 7: A Body That Works

See how spiritual gifts are intended to make a difference in believers' lives and bring us together.

Part 8: God's Art Gallery

Ephesians 3:10-11. As His creation, we reflect His nature for all the world to see.

Part 9: Simplicity, Sincerity, Sacrifice

Remain humble, genuine, and diligent towards one another, regardless of what's happening around us.

Part 10: The Need for Leaders

1 Timothy 3 - Tomorrow's Church depends upon the leaders we are raising up today.

Part 11: The Process of Generosity

2 Corinthians 9 - It all begins with the condition of our hearts.

Part 12: The Action of Faith

Hebrews 11 - Let your convictions in the unseen determine your actions until the end, regardless of what happens.

Part 13: Five Keys To Joy

It's not about what's happening to us but a matter of what we are choosing.

Part 14: Happy With Here

Understand how to find contentment today.

Part 15: God's Preference

Discover how worship can be seen in all that we do.

Part 16: Pray Like It Works

Here's an encouraging word to pursue God until you see the breakthrough!

Part 17: Christ, the Pre-eminent One

See where Christ is to be first in our lives.

Part 18: Breathing In and Out

Learn more about the mentality of the manger in this Christmas message.

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